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The question How to get over my ex girlfriend? is a question asked by all straight men at least once in their lives and to the seeker of the answer, it can prove to be quite elusive. Your first break up of your first meaningful relationship is the most difficult to deal with, it is unlike any pain you ever felt before and it isnt something you can get used to. You learn to deal with break ups a little better as you experience them more, but again, it isnt something you can get used to.
They say that break ups are as traumatic as losing someone you love by death, but we have to put things in perspective, it is the pain that is on par with death and not the reality. Every day people have to deal with tragedies that cant be undone no matter what they do. But in your case, no matter how painful the break up might have been, the fact remains that you havent lost anything that cant be taken back.
I know for a fact that you can be happy with or without your ex girlfriend and I also know for a fact that you can fall in love again with someone new. We are designed in a way so that we forget things and this is a good thing for the most part. Imagine if you had a photographic memory of all the unpleasant things that has happened to you in your life. Could you ever forgive someone for a wrongdoing? Could you ever stop grieving for someone? We never completely forget about something, but time is like an anesthetic to our memory, it numbs all our memories down. So in order to continue being happy we keep making new memories with the people we love and when we stop making new experiences with someone in particular, that person slowly but surely becomes a dusty archive in our memory.
You have to understand that pain, happiness, sadness, hatred, and all range of emotions peak at some point. Chances are that your pain has peaked already and you are just looking for a soft landing. The best thing to do in your situation is of course to keep yourself occupied with something entertaining or maybe even productive. I know your mind is telling you to stay home and to be alone, but I promise you that you will feel so much better if you surround yourself with the people that care about you.
If you feel like taking a little chance, I would also advise you to start dating again. I dont want you to look for a serious and long-term relationship. I just want you to have a little fun by meeting new people and to re-acquaintance yourself to the excitement of starting anew. For one night dont think about your ex girlfriend and just imagine you are having a good time with a friend. This will help you look towards the future rather look back for a past thats long gone.
Whatever you decide to do, just remember that you dont have to commit to anything or anyone, and you no longer have to factor in your ex girlfriend to come to a decision. The end is the beginning of something new and with that knowledge youll never be lost.
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You can find more materials on getting over your ex girlfriend at, How to get my girlfriend back. Just look to the right side of the site for the “Moving On” section. If you want to go after your ex girlfriend, then the entire site is your archive for all the answers you need.
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